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Nepotism is not something we associate with Rotary but the success of Peter Taylor’s whanau as he announced the meat raffle results and the introduction of Past President Mike’s daughter Jen as the guest speaker might raise some pertinent questions! As a person with years of experience in dealing with at-risk young people and the social workers who handle their cases Jen Collins, our guest speaker, is well placed to give personal insights into the nature of youth offending - what leads to it and what is being done about it. Using the name Jackson for an avatar embodying all the developmental aspects likely to affect a young person’s growth - physical, social, emotional and environmental - we were given a comprehensive and meaningful insight into troubling trends in contemporary NZ society. Jen covered three stages of development, using the title ‘Trauma informed youth development’ starting with conception to the age of about 3. Unplanned pregnancy, school drop-out, father in prison, little family support, alcohol or drug addiction and no role models on which to base parenting skills, Jackson’s mum is up against it from the start. Jen referred to a ‘disturbed attachment cycle’ e.g. baby cries as needing something – nappy change, drink, food – mother either ignores or reacts negatively – more crying, eventual rage or apathy – no play or close attachment, in short a scary unpredictable world. This is TRAUMA – a response to events without the skills to cope. The effect on the brain’s development was explained – the start of severe behavioural problems.  Early and middle childhood sees an escalation of the issues – Jackson out at night, scared to go home, a loner or caught up with older anti-social role models, wagging school, risk taking, having contact with Oranga Tamariki or Youth Justice system but suspicious of outsiders – able to identify who may or may not be ‘safe’ to interact with.. Even if ‘clean’ and supported, parents still not able to cope. Emotional brain poorly developed. Teenage years – openly and intentionally defiant, socially isolated – picks fights, carries a weapon, car conversion and ram raids, rejecting any help., self-harming, STDs, domestic abuse, poor housing, discrimination, anger etc., etc. etc. Interventions may include youth Justice system, alternative education, a youth worker alongside, therapy for parents, marae based programmes etc. All pretty scary stuff! BUT things are happening and wrap-around programmes are showing signs of success. More training is being given to social workers on understanding the trauma origins of behavioural issues and statistics put a lie to the viewpoint that it’s all going downhill. So Jen’s address ended on a reasonably positive note and listeners could take comfort in the fact that people like her are hanging in there, determined to make a positive difference. A very Rotary thing! |